After everything said and done convincing something to someone is the most important thing that we all have to do.
Let us take my profession....if you can convince the client he will pay more than he should(even in his wildest dreams!), you convince the judge, you will get the order, you convince the people, you become popular and so on....
The best way to successfully decapitate your opponent's view is by agreeing him directly and then actually bring him into an illusion and twist his own words into making the person saying what you actually wanted him to say.
The point is either he will accept it as it is after all he himself is saying it(or at least thinks so!) or he would be so dumbfounded that he at least wont argue with you anymore as you were never contradicting him in the first place, and believe me there is hardly anything more irritating and frustrating than knowing that you do not agree yet you have no way to argue.
The process creates a strange almost magical effect...try it out(if you could decipher what i meant, that is!)
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